Bator Bro Party in London: My Experience & Review
Are you thinking of going to the Bator Bro Party in London? I went earlier this year; this is my insider report on how it is.
I have been to one other group masturbation event prior to this (in a different country), but I could tell that this event would be something special and would be worth the trip.
So let’s dive in to see what this event is really like. What I think is probably the best bator event in the world.
Note: I’m not affiliated with Bator Bro. I just want to share what a great experience I had. If you also attended, leave a review here.
Bator Bro Background
I’m not sure exactly when the event was founded, but it’s been going at least since 2023. The founder clearly puts a lot of effort into getting the details right and making these events special.
The good impression started on their website. Unlike the dark, outdated websites of many other groups, this one is refreshingly modern and clean.
The overall ethos seems to be that your love of edging and eroticicism is not something you have to hide. It doesn’t have to be dirty.
The website for the club is under the umbrella of the Bromance Club, which includes events on the day prior to the main jerk off event.
Event Overview
The Bromance Club events currently take place on the last weekend of each month (Saturday and Sunday).
The first day consists of several different workshops, such as an edging workshop.
The second day consists of the masturbation event, split into three parts:
- The “Welcum” social (at a nearby bar)
- The main event
- AfterGlow (the social after the event)
Unfortunately I only attended the main event, so I can’t speak to the others in this post.
Booking Tickets
I booked my tickets on the first day of the month when they became available. Since I was flying from other country, I wanted to make sure that I got committed tickets as soon as possible, having already booked flights to London a while ago. Given the quality of the event and venue, the prices are very reasonable
Location
The location is in Hackney Wick area of London, which had a distinct creative, slightly grungy hipster vibe. It was relatively easy to access from the rest of London.
I was staying in the center of London and I arrived by bus. Unfortunately the bus went on diversion, so it was tricker to get there than expected. Looking back, I wish I had taken the train the whole way.
Event Prep
What should you bring to Bator Bro? Well, you’ll probably want to show up in your normal clothes, and bring another more relaxed, sexier set of clothes you can change into after arriving.
There is no alcohol for sale at the event. But you can certainly buy and bring your own. There was a corner market with cheap drinks you can purchase just a few minutes away.
Don’t need to worry about bringing any lube—they’ll have you covered with ample containers of Albolene throughout the venue.
Pre-Event Chat
There is a Telegram Group which opens up a week or two before the start of the event. The idea is to get to know the other attendees…and to exchange some heated texts and pictures!
The organizer strongly encouraged people to introduce themselves and share pictures in the group in order to participate.
This is a good way to organize connections with people outside of the event, and find people who you want to make sure you meet there.
Arriving at the Event
Arriving at the entrance, I was pretty sure the other people were heading to the same place, so I followed them into a large building with a “Bator Bros” sign in the door.
I arrived just a few minutes after the posted 1 PM start time. But I think most people came at least 30 to 60 minutes later.
When you enter, someone will check your ticket by scanning a QR code. They will also give you a large bag (I think it was a garbage bag) in which to store your clothes and any other personal items.
The person at the front was very friendly and helps put you at ease right away!
There’s a changing area right by this entrance where you can put your stuff in the bags. Then you go up two sets of stairs, and on this top floor is where all the personal stuff is stored.
It was much more organized than expected. They give you a wristband with a number, and then they assign that number to the bag.
What about if you brought drinks? Well, you can certainly take drinks with you into the main event area. But if you have extra drinks that you want to keep at the event but not carry around, they have an organized way to do that with a numbered grid system. Pretty neat.
Layout of the building
The event takes place in what I think is a photography studio. It’s quite an interesting and refreshing choice for venue versus the more typical bar, sauna, or living room-style locations.
There are the three floors. The first floor is where you change. Behind that area, there is a large padded floor area for any type of play that doesn’t involve standing up or using the massage tables in the other area.
There’s also a kitchenette area with cups where you can drink tap water.
On the second floor, there’s a large space with a variety of inflatable couches for socialization. To the right of that, there is a large tent where the action got started.
Within the tent, there were several massage tables. The idea is that you could lay down while others edge and play with you. Very hot. Around one of these tables was a set of chairs for people to sit and watch.
There were two bathrooms on this floor. A few times there were some short lines to get in, but it never a huge issue. There was a small shower in one of the bathrooms, but it was marked off as unusable. I would say this is the only downside of the event, but it’s understandable given the number of people.
There’s also a sign on the bathroom saying only one person is allowed at a time, hah!
There’s also a table on this floor with stickers you can use to show others if you’re new, or if you prefer to be edge or edge others.
The start of the event
On the second floor, there was an area with a handful of couches. Well, they were inflatable couches, which was interesting but it got the job done.
More people started to come in and mingle while standing, and others came to sit down on the couches and start to make some small talk.
At this point, most people were clothed to some extent. Some were shirtless but wearing underwear. Others still had T-shirts on.
I was wondering when people would start to occupy the tent area. Eventually, a few younger guys who came to the event together as friends started playing on the massage table and this started getting things to heat up.
So after a little a little while of sitting on the couch, I went into the tented area.
It’s a completely different vibe in there. While the lighting in the couch area is “normal,” in the tent it’s a darker red glow.
I spent some time just just sitting and watching for a while. Somebody came up to make small talk, and while we didn’t connect, I kept walking around to watch other people.
At some point, I was standing by the entrance to the tent when someone came in. We pretty much immediately clicked and spent the rest of the event together.
At some point all underwear came off. Where do you put it? I suppose you could bring it up to the third floor, but I just put mine on the sidelines of the tent.
If you move around to different spots, you can just bring your clothes along with you. It’s not a huge hassle.
Newbie support (big bro/little bro)
It was also cool to see that they have a system for the experienced members (“big bros”) to try welcoming and helping out the newbies.
Someone approached me early in the event to ask if I was new (they probably didn’t recognize me).
We made some small talk and he explained how about how things worked, including the sticker system.
The First Floor
For me, this was probably the hottest part/area of the event. It’s also the hardest to describe without being there and seeing it (so I’ll mostly leave it to your imagination).
Again, this was a large play area with a padded mat. It was supposed to open an hour or two after the start of the event. By the time we got down there, it was almost completely covered in guys.
We found an open space and were able to play on the floor. Surrounding us were groups of 2-3 guys playing.
The sounds and sights and overall vibe was incredible.
A few times I bumped the guys around us accidently – that’s how close and intimate everything was.
People on the “sidelines” were watching (and probably also waiting to have a chance to be on this soft cushioned mat). It was nice to make eye contact and connect with the others in the adjacent groups.
Anyway, without spilling all the details, this is where I finished off my time at the event. I wish I had come down sooner to experience this part.
Who comes to Bator Bro?
I can honestly say that there are people of all ages, sizes, and nationalities. There really seems to be someone for everyone.
But overall it seems like a younger crowd then I would have expected. At least younger than your typical gay sauna crowd.
Would I go back?
I’m quite confident this has to be the biggest and best event of its type in the world. The level of effort and planning that goes into it is impressive.
It’s surreal that everyone is there for the same exact thing, and you can experience this in a welcoming, friendly environment.
I definitely would like to travel back to London to experience it again.
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